{"id":2,"date":"2011-03-14T01:02:28","date_gmt":"2011-03-14T01:02:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dev.hsphereplugins.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=2"},"modified":"2015-01-19T18:58:04","modified_gmt":"2015-01-19T18:58:04","slug":"about","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.collaborativepracticechicago.com\/hp_wordpress\/about","title":{"rendered":"About Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>I am carl Michael rossi, JD, LPC\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-42\" title=\"OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA\" src=\"https:\/\/www.collaborativepracticechicago.com\/hp_wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/brochure-crop20pcnet.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"112\" height=\"145\" \/><\/p>\n<h1><strong><em><span style=\"color: #993300;\">\u201cI help people transform divorce from an ending into a beginning.\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>I&#8217;ve spent the last ten years helping people create positive separate post-divorce lives by working together. Being divorced myself, I know that this is not where you wanted to be when you got married.\u00a0 And I know that you are possibly concerned about all the &#8220;war&#8221; stories about other divorces.\u00a0 Even if you&#8217;ve decided that your marriage has run its course, you likely do not want it to conclude in a battle. I focus my professional efforts primarily in Collaborative Practice because I firmly believe in the ability of individuals to work together; even in the challenging and emotional process of ending a marriage.<\/p>\n<p>As deeply as I believe that, I also understand that the right support in that process is essential.\u00a0 The &#8216;right&#8217; support, in my mind, acknowledges you when things are difficult and keeps you focused on your future.\u00a0 With that focus we can work alongside your soon-to-be-ex in a creative manner to find ways to take what you both had in your marriage and best use it to create what you each will need to move forward. I take a personal interest in each of my clients.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t believe that how any other divorce has happened controls in any way what must or even should happen in yours.<\/p>\n<p>My intention is always to keep our attention on what will work for <em>YOU<\/em>, what will meet <em>YOUR<\/em> needs. I believe that you are best supported when you have the right professionals in place.\u00a0 And by working in Collaborative Practice, that allows for each of you having:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>a coach in place to work with your individual goals for the future and with communicating them with each other<\/li>\n<li>\u00a0a common neutral financial professional to show you what various options would look like<\/li>\n<li>attorneys to work with you two to make sure that the agreements you two reach can and do meet your anticipated needs\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These \u00a0professionals work together to help you two create an agreement that will support you each to meet your post-divorce needs. I look forward to talking with you about your circumstances.\u00a0 Whether you use my services as an Attorney or as a Coach or as a Mediator&#8230;or we discover that I am not the right fit for you&#8230;I would enjoy talking with you about the full benefits of Collaborative Practice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>MY BACKGROUND <\/strong> <strong>\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>In the law&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Rossettie and Rosettie<\/strong> \u2011 Corning, NY<\/li>\n<li><strong>The Legal Aid Society<\/strong> \u2011 New York, NY<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fordham University School of Law<\/strong> \u2011 New York, NY \u2011 J.D., 1984 (admitted in New York [1963149] and Illinois [06238518])<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>In counseling&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Private Counseling Practice<\/strong> &#8211; Chicago, IL. Licensed Professional Counselor [IL 178-000842]; National Certified Counselor [210381]<\/li>\n<li><strong>University of Notre Dame<\/strong> \u2011 Notre Dame, IN \u2011 MA, Psychology, 1977<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fordham University<\/strong> \u2011 Bronx, NY \u2011 BS, Psychology, 1975<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>COLLABORATIVE PRACTICE INVOLVEMENT<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.collaborativepractice.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">International Academy of Collaborative Professionals<\/a><\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>Member since 2001, Board member 2002-2004<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/cppillinois.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Collaborative Practice Professionals of Illinois<\/a><\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>Founder, Executive Director, 2010-present<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Collaborative Law Institute of Illinois<\/strong>\n<ul>\n<li>Member 2002-2009, Board member 2002-2006<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>Creator and Moderator of CollabLaw<\/strong>, the international email listServe for Collaborative Professionals to share ideas and experiences and improve as Collaborative Professionals [since 2000]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>CERTIFICATES AND TRAININGS<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Family and Divorce Mediation<\/strong> through DePaul University<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nonviolent Communication<\/strong> Skills through <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">LifeLink Corporation<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>Coaching for Clinicians<\/strong> through <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">MentorCoach<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0MAJOR PRESENTATIONS<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;The &#8216;Greek Chorus&#8217; in your Collaborative Case: How to Successfully Work with your &#8216;Felt but not Seen&#8217; Participants&#8221;, IACP Forum, Washington, DC, 2010, and CP-Cal Forum, San Diego, CA, 2011.<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;There is an &#8216;I&#8217; in Team, New Mexico Collaborative Law Symposium, May, 2008<\/li>\n<li>Bringing Visioning to the Collaborative Tool Box, IACP Forum, Toronto, 2007<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Relationships? Sure. They\u2019re all about me. &#8216; Annual Conference of <em>The International Alliance of Holistic Lawyers<\/em>, Monterey, CA, April, 2006<\/li>\n<li>Featured speaker at &#8220;The Role of the Peacemaker in Healing Polarization.\u00a0 Summer Peace Camp for Lawyers.&#8221;\u00a0 Renaissance Lawyer Society,\u00a0 Black Mountain, NC, July, 2005<\/li>\n<li>Panelist, &#8220;Alternative Dispute Resolution: New Opportunities&#8221; at Chicago Bar Association, January, 2004<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Collaborative Family Law&#8221; at Forum of the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges, Kansas City, September, 2003<\/li>\n<li>Panelist, &#8220;Emerging Models for Collaboration&#8221; at International Academy of Collaborative Professionals annual forum, Galveston, November, 2002<\/li>\n<li>Featured instructor at &#8220;Creating Value in Collaborative Practice&#8221;, Cincinnati, Ohio, September, 2002<\/li>\n<li>Featured Tele-class Speaker for <em>The Renaissance Lawyer Society<\/em>, January, 2001<\/li>\n<li>Presentation on listening skills to the Annual Conference of <em>The International Alliance of Holistic Lawyers<\/em>, Chicago, September, 2000<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>ARTICLES<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;May I Have a Moment of Your Time?\u00a0 Regular Debriefing Improves the Collaborative Team\u2019s Efectiveness&#8221;, <em>with<\/em> Linda Solomon, LPC, LMFT, The Collaborative Review, Summer 2007\u00a0\u00a0 Volume 9, Issue 2, pp 14-15<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;SHIFTING GEARS: How Do I know If I\u2019ve Made the Paradigm Shift?&#8221;, The Collaborative Review, Winter, 2006. Volume 8, Issue 3, pp 7-9<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Stepping Off the Edge&#8221;: &#8216;Threads&#8217; from the Collaborative ListServ, The Collaborative Review, Oct, 2002, V 4-2, p 22 (editor)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Why Lawyers Can&#8217;t Hear.&#8221;\u00a0 First published by the International Alliance of Holistic Lawyers, 2002<br \/>\nReprinted with permission by the Florida Bar Association, April, 2005 and by the AARP Legal Hotlines, Summer, 2005<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Healing Polarization by Listening&#8221;, Cutting Edge Law magazine, V1-1<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0I am carl Michael rossi, JD, LPC\u00a0 \u201cI help people transform divorce from an ending into a beginning.\u201d I&#8217;ve spent the last ten years helping people create positive separate post-divorce lives by working together. 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